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Dr. Gary Chapman

Level Three: "Intellectual Talk"

We are walking up the stairs on the communication ladder. Step one was "Hallway Talk". Step two: "Reporter Talk". Today we take step three: Intellectual Talk - "Do you know what I think?" Now I am getting ready to share my ideas on the subject.

Wife says to husband, "I heard today that George has cataracts." Her husband responds, "I think he should go see Dr. Gilespie. I hear he's the best in town." "I don't know," his wife responds, "I've heard that Dr. Black is good. He's younger and has the latest techniques." "I'd go for the experience of Dr. Gilespie," her husband responds. Then they move to another topic of conversation.

After the basic information was shared (George has cataracts), then they both shared their ideas on the subject. Typically when people talk on this level they watch for the response of the other person. If the person gets defensive, then the other person will bring the conversation to a close and retreat to a safer subject.  Far better to listen and give honest response.

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