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Accepting
Responsibility for Love Choices
Meeting my wife's emotional need for love is a
choice I make every day. If I know her primary
love language and choose to speak it, her deepest emotional need will be
met and she will feel secure in my love. If she does the same for me, my
emotional needs are met and both of us live with a full "love
tank".
In this state of emotional contentment, both of us
can give our creative energies to many wholesome projects outside the
marriage while we continue to keep our marriage exciting and growing.
How do you create this kind of marriage? It all
begins with the choice to love. I recognize that as a husband God has
given me the responsibility of meeting my wife's need for love. I choose
to accept that responsibility. Then I learn how to speak her primary love
language and I choose to speak it regularly. What happens? My wife's
attitude and feelings toward me become positive. Now she reciprocates and
my need for love is also met. Love is a choice.
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